Random 6 of me

I guess i am still new to blog world caused its take me a while for me to figure out the meaning of being tagged by a blogger. Lets play the "小玩 意" brought you by Sming , Miss AmBank travel year 2006.

I always dreamed to live in a perfect world. Like the most common quote by the beauty pageant, “world peace” and I guess we all realize that this is no such thing as “世 界 和 平” and my biggest dreams are:

• Travel around the world. Hopefully I will gain the title “miss AmBank travel year 2007” (I think this is unlikely and you know lah…very hard to beat sming).
  A long way to go… I have just travel to few countries only.

• Retire by age of 40 and participate in some social works activities. I always believe it is good to contribute something to the society. The clock is ticking very fast… and I doubtful I can fulfill this. Never mine…大 有大 做 and 小 有 小 做… maybe small contribution once in a while will do. Money is very important to me and this is why social work come into my mind and not money contribution. 有錢出錢 沒錢出力 and for sure this is not the same if I am millionaires and I think I will contribute both.

• Indulge my self in good food and have a warm and comfortable home. Actually I am introvert or the homely type of person. My hobby is lying on a comfortable sofa/bed enjoying movies/music and sancking some foods. Foods!! ya yummy foods and guess what my animal sign is boar!!! heheheheh. 吃 飽 就 睡 睡飽 就 吃 but don’t get me wrong, I only like delicious foods. Few of my colleagues already complaining that I am picky for foods. The most difficult questions is “what's for lunch today”

• I would like to have a home that have a private land that allows me to do some gardening at my retiring age. I really think about my future, ya till my retiring age. no play play. Of course the most important thing is to live my full life together with my family members.

• My nightmare during my childhood is Japanese war...etc and I separated with my families and I still have some sort of these nightmares sometime. I guess I love my family too much and I am very scared to lose them. I am now hoping for a new life to contribute some noise in my life..i have been enjoying my quiet life with my hubby for quiet sometime.

• I like money very much!!! Without money I can’t travel and I can’t own my dreamed home and i can only contribute very little to the society. I have given this job to my hubby since the day i marry him. My dear hubby, you are my biggest hope!!
  I have no hope for $$$ at AmBank but working life here is pretty relax as compare to my previous company. I used to be very ambitious at work. Not any more and I realize that it is very hard to accumulate our wealth from employment. I am now just hoping to work in a friendly working environment. No politics and just enjoying coming to work… seems like a very simple thing but actually not. I am happy now caused we have a bunch of friendly colleague in AmBank… Keep up the spirit… travel!! Eat!!! And have funs!!! yeah..

so what's next... i only new few bloggers and all has been tagged except Jason Low

used to be my e-pal

I used to have a e-pal few years back. at first, quite ok caused he is my forwarded mail supplier and we also later become friend and in fact i also introduce him few friends.
Not easy to find a true friends...and for some reasons we stop communicate to each other in recent year.

I doubtful maybe my requirement to qualify for the word "FRIEND" is very strict. I have lower down my expectation very much after all these years. no expectation mean no dissapointment

but about this so call my longest epal...maybe he is a good guy but the fact is he always tell me the story that make me doubtfull and i just don't know how to explain.
He will keep telling you he promoted...from 4k to 6k and etc within a year "in my heart what are you going to proves?" ok just cool... i just ignorelah and congrate him.

When i lost my nissan, he will advise me to buy BMW, CLK etc. am i normal if i was thinking that he is actually not honest and trying to prove something? where the hell i can afford it lah? ... and i just act normal and told him that i can't afford it now but doesn't mean that i can't in future. he will just call you to tell you that his friend wanna sell his CLK... APAlah... is this a correct channel.
this is no ending story... much more thing bla bla bla, and very naturally in my mind!!! yau mou ahhhh!!! I knew him about six year and i never ever have the chance to see his car...from his Camry to his BMW bla bla bla...

and today 13/09/06 for certain reason, we did communicate and I "Cha" him "kau lik"

e-pal : hi wat a surprise that you can forward mail to me.......btw how r u??
(The reason, i am very "tai leong" (forgiveness), i have just forwarded mail to friends in he is in the list)

me : You must have did something bad in order for you to think like this…I am very good. How about you?

e-pal : me damn good... coz i am now at chian shenzhen.

me : What is so damn good about shenzen. The food is expensive… and crime rate is very high. You better be careful.
This is what happen to my friend working in shanghai. He won’t stay at shenzen for anything not related to work. He will choose to go back to shanghai immediately after meeting. Probably he just picky..

e-pal : ai ya never mind lah whether the thing is expensive or not coz i m not using my pocket money to pay for those thing wat..... everything is cover by company. crime rate is totally no concern with me lah coz i in and out is guide by security guard fr the supplier company :)
(security guard!! believe him?)

me : You bring the security guard back to the hotel? such a waste, like “cho kam” (prisoner) If the guard is women, nice lah. I think probably you like the “pak ku” (chinese prostitue) there, but don’t go alone!!! Bring along your security guard. The thing there is really cheap except the food. Don’t eat too much, jaga your weight

e-pal : ha... they do got arange girl sercive too :P you already got bb??how's yr work??alreaedy promoted??this month end i m going to siem reap for holiday hehehe.....

me : Aiya!! Becarefull of aids!!. And also becarefull “pak ku” con your money!!!
Will go holiday during raya and Christmas. Probably will go either siem reap/Hanoi and new Zealand!! Involve in project now and really hard for planning. I have to cancel the trip to hong kong/macau/zuhai … probably will re-plan. My friends work at zuhai, maybe will go to visit him.
The other work at su zhou, shanghai and shan tou… they all know each other, and we have plan to meet somewhere… and is pretty hard caused very hard to find a good time.

e-pal : ic i went to hk disneyland that day hmm.... damn nice oso lah.siem reap will go this month end lotz of ppl say nice oso but one thing is we hv to use USD there :(


me : Disneyland… most people said not nice.. very hot and not many thing yet. What time they start the firework…
Friend just come back and told me that hoi yeung kong yuen better. but Disneyland still in my plan, think have to pay more instead of taking the cheap air ticket..
Was lucky caused air asia did refund me some money!!

e-pal : the firework start at 8pm and hoi yeong kong yean no body go there anymore then will close the door this year end. the disneyland is depend on when you go if summer sure lah damn hot.....

me : Aiya… the firework is the closing part… they close so early ka…I done the survey with friends caused Disney was in my plan. And also browse the info thru the internet… yaloh… may be that day they close early caused you are going there.
(just "taruh" only, already bueh tahan)

e-pal : eh do you know weekday they close on 8pm?? and weekend only the close late?? if you donno pls dont simply say but it ok??............damn it

me : I thought they close early caused you are there… “yeung sui” (ugly)
(hahaha!!! hopefully will end here but he still shoot me back)

e-pal : next time not yet go a place dont simply tembak like "chi siew siew pan toy piew" understand!!!!!

me: It’s doesn’t matter!!! I am very happy today. hahahaha
(Caused just have the satisfaction to make him angry and taruh him )

e-pal : you happy is good lah...me too coz i can now travel the world with free from company no need to headache think about cheap airline or wat budget :)
(aiyah tak mati lagi!!! ezzzzzzzz bueh tahan anymore)

me: Go to shenzen is travel around the world already ka…aiyak, how many countries in this worldlah…or your company have branch in every country… and send you there to enjoy…
Good for you… you rather don’t quit!!! Maybe they will give you share also!!
(now is 14/09/06 9:18am.....I just cannot keep quite, will taruh him back whenever he send me mail... if still cannot I will employ consultants)

e-pal: yupe i do enjoy with this company coz they give me promotion and 5 figure income...better than some ppl still stick with one company with income 4 figure??? and no promotion?? he....... my travel place include Germany,uk,china,japan,hongkong,thailand,cambodia he.... important is free with 5 star class hotel....and no need to look for budget lah kena look for other friends lah to bring around lah.......headache lah u know if we need budget then only can travel ha........
(heard the five figure income so many times...)

me:“Nge tung ngo hok ko yue loi san jeong yau wa lei chi meh”
The pride is not from our own man!!! Is the pride other people give you
(conversation ends 14/09/06)

I always feel enlighthen when this steven chow remind me of his quote in Kung Fu “Nge tung ngo hok ko yue loi san jeong yau wa lei chi meh”
I always have the positive thinking about this quote!! its really work when somebody show off!!! or looking down on us. ya you think i will tell you if i am bilionaires? i definately won't!!!
we have to proud to ourself and yes i am proud to be myself... just me. eventhough i am not bilionaires now and i always believe its doesn't mean we can't in future.
we have to always appreciate what we have now. we must find balance in life and for one thing i am sure that it doesn't mean that we will be happy if we are bilionaires.. just doesn't work like this

my new hitech gadget

This is an argument that technology bring human being closer to each other!!! now we can actually reach people real time at any part of the world, not just emailing but also can have this face to face communication via video call. and this is what my new gadget is offering. I just upgraded my phone to do all this communication thingy and believe me with 1k i have the latest features. 3G enabled. Please take a look!! a special request by Patric to load my new gadget in my blog!!!

On the other hand, i do not know whether technology are really does the great job in terms of enhancing relationship among human being. I have no idea why my nearest neighbour next to me just ignoring me... i was thinking what wrong with me... and after sometime, i also ignoring them.

I believed, this is not just me alone isn't? Its happened to other people as well especially for those living in urban area. yes... i saw some statistic and i just tell my self...is ok!!! i am normal :)... and i just do not know whats wrong with my neighbour next to me. maybe i made too much noise or what.

I had just redeemed a free gift using my bonuslink point. The delivery guy just cannot keep his day and time correctly... and keep asking me who else can he send the pacel to..!!! Who else ya!!!???? and the fact is nobody... nothough we did smile to few friendly neighbourhood, but how to expect them to help ya... we hardly knew or bump to each other. Infact few friends staying nearby the neighbourhood, but my first thought is "how to ask lah? everybody have to go thru their hectic city life" and i hope i am totally wrong!! but i worry i am not.
is this just life and can somebody really make a diffrence? i am trying to figure out how to enhance other people life and is this mean, in return we enhance our own life too? or vice versa!! or this is just one way thingy, feel happy for others!! i just don't know but what i know is the real world is far away from what i dreamed of. this is why i am ignoring many things around me!! i am not aim for mission impossible and just hoping for a neighbourhood that we can minggle around, playing mahjong together and most importantly will help each others in difficulty time...

anybody with similar thought!!! you are welcome to stay at sungai long

Anyhow thanks for the technology, am i actually talking to my computer or talk to many people out there!! and i also wonder what is the posibility that my neighbour will read this!! I guess the the next time i see them smiling at me!! for sure they somehow find out my mini project.
probably i am much more naturally in front of machines instead of human being!!! such a complicated creatures. ya really complicated till i take a very long time to understand myself.

my mini project

my first project ever since after my schooling time. It has been so long ago, i have this feeling of pursuing something and my brain is actually rusted now. trying to revive it to the normal function. first of all, i have just change my dinasour phone and take me quite sometime to familiar my self with all these new thing available and i guess this blog is a good start to polish my bain and hopefully will find my own a new place for pleasure.
but the real fact is all because of "siew keong" posted by patric!!