Tuesday, November 13, 2007

Baby Naming

I got a funny mail few days back with the title "Why Chinese must not have English names"
below is the funny reasons but not just English name but i also have difficulty to find chinese name for my baby Mika. The chinese name will sounds funny as well when written and pronounce in roman. It is just the fact that we are mostly use our name in roman writing instead of in chinese writing and in fact all our official letter/document will require use to use our name in roman writing. How ahh if we apply credit card with just my name written in chinese. couldn't imagine what they will think about us ahhh...

I seldom have the chance to write my chinese anme but it might not the same for others. I found out that my sister use it pretty often caused she teach in chinese school. for me, no chance at all!!! not even once a year. thus i no need to change my chinese name eventhough the charecter combination is not really good. how lah...if i sitting at one corner writting my name in chinese for the sick of writing....#$%@@ . I don't think i would like this to be happened.

Why Chinese must not have English names

  • >Anne Chang> (Mandarin)- Dirty>
  • >Anne Chin (Mandarin) - Keep quiet>
  • >Faye Chen (Mandarin) - Dusty>
  • >Carl Cheng (Hokkien) - Buttock>
  • >Monica Cheng (Hokkien) - Touching your buttocks>
  • >Lucy Leow (Hokkien) - You are dead>
  • >Jane Tan (Mandarin) - Frying eggs>
  • >Suzie Leow (Hokkien) - Lost till death>
  • >Henry Mah (Mandarin) - Hate your mum>
  • >Corrine Tai (Hokkien) - Poor fellow>
  • >Paul Chan (Mandarin) - Bankrupt>
  • >Nelson Tan (Mandarin) - Bird laying eggs>
  • >Leslie Tong (Mandarin) - Rubbish bin>
  • >Carmen Teng (Hokkien) - Leg hair long>
  • >Connie Mah (Mandarin) - Call your mother>
  • >Danny See (Hokkien) - Squeeze you to death>
  • >Rosie Teng (Hokkien) - Screws and nails>
  • >Pete Tsai (Hokkien) - Nose droppings>
  • >Macy Koh (Cantonese) - Never die before>
  • >Michael Tan (Cantonese) - sell chicken eggs


so now comes the funny story while finding suitable name for my baby Mika. My husband sir name is 梁 and in roman writing is LUI.... yeah this sound like money in cantonese and hokien as well.

My hubby always wanted to name our baby with just one name instead of with the middle name. so one find day, on the way back and he have something in mind and seems very happy to name our baby mika as 梁 漢. He like it very much and its sound pretty good then naturally we talk about it in english writing. I started it with "Lui Hon"... then he suddenly blurt out commented that "Hon" is not nice and we should use han yu ping ying as "Han" and he is pretty exciting with this name...he was very happy repeating the name as lui han's. I don't know why i just have the urge immediately. At that time we haven't agree on any english name yet and i just answer him "good", "very goods"... lui Han's and the english name is "han lui" and since daddy always spent lavishly... it's a good name!!!! believe me, at that time i really cannot tahan and we just laugh hysterically. my Husband is always the spender.. and i have always reminded him..... i guess if our baby name after this name, the next time i just have to call my baby to alert him. i am ok with this... and gues what of course he said no...... to this. But really i like this name pronounce in cantonse.

we still have not come to any conclusion on the chinese name yet... since the LUI... is the surname, and this is associated with money and its seems pretty hard to only have first name without the middle name.


Finding a name with surname Lui (without middle name)

  • Bin Lui - good fotune, can use the magic to create money. 梁賓, 彬, 斌
  • Jay Lui/jie lui - all the friend will run away including the relatives 梁杰, 傑
  • Wan Lui - sound good for fortune but it's neither sound nice nor have good meaning in chinese.
  • Wu Lui - can mean got money in hokkien or sounds no money in cantonese and the pronounsation for 梁武 is terrible in cantonses.
  • Yong Lui - as bad as the father who just spend spend n spend but the chinese name 梁勇 not bad also
  • Fei lui & Feng lui- couldn't imagine!! but at least sound good in cantonese... 梁 飛, 霏 or 梁丰 (my hubby choice, very easy to write) and my choice is 梁峰.

I really run out of idea as i am not chinese educated, its seems pretty hard to find a good name as those sound nice and have good meaning in chinese will become terrible after converting it to roman writing.......how ahhh... I am welcome for any suggestion.......anybody!!

Monday, November 12, 2007

Endeavor with my new journey of life

Time passed by very fast since my last blog. I am very grateful to be able to blog again at my work place. To begin with the story of a new life and a new journey of life. I am finally expecting a baby after so many years and my most important thing now is to give birth to a healthy baby boy and the most exciting thing is to see him for the first time. i mean face to face.... i already really excited to see his picture in 4D. from little tiny round images to something look like a baby with eyes, nose, hands and legs and also to find out that he is a baby boy during my 17 weeks.

I am now 19 weeks pregnant and a bit relieve that I have almost gone through half of the journey.

Last week was quite worried as my screening test result came out positive for down syndrome. We decided to go for amniotic test, where the doctor will insert a needle to the amniotic sac to take some sample of my amniotic fluid and then send it to the lab at Singapore for testing. Luckily the results come out pretty fast and at least now I am less worried to find out that he is normal and can concentrating on more thing now. I guess this is my nature, just less worried instead of have a peace of mind. After all I still have to go through the other half journey of my pregnancy. i am telling myself, lets worried for one thing at a time, I am not thinking anything yet after birth. How ahh becoming a mother, can I cope with it? Whatever is it, I am really happy to play this role…

One thing about the amniotic test is its pose minor risk for miscarriage and the doc seems very misleading to tell us that the fees is one sixty. My hubby have a shock when the RM200 notes given to settle the bill is not enough caused the bill is actually RM1600 instead……….. guess what I didn’t complain or angry at all, this is not me. I just tell my baby mika, no worried, mummy is rich and as long as you are okay, mummy will be very happy. ya the truth is i can afford that but not really rich leh.

The doctor will perform a through scan to find out the baby development on my next visit. and i will be less worried again to find out my baby to have a complete development. All these fees for checkups are not cheap leh. So far I visited 4 times plus one amniotic test and have already spend about RM2400. Found out that the bill for "planned csec" will come around 5k and if induced and then only csec, the bill will go up to 8K… no play play leh… I couldn’t afford this 10 years ago and thus make this as one of the advantage to have baby at older age.... :)


For time being, I still not able to experience my baby doing the kicking and punching yet. Although my tummy is quite huge as compared to one of my friend that is also expecting at the same time. She already can feel it. Guess what, maybe because i created a pretty large space for my baby to move around and its really exciting to find out how is the kicking and punching feeling, and hopefully i will able to sense it by next week.